Fred Aiken Writing

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music in the trunk of a car

Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite genre of music?

I think that would depend largely on my mood. I enjoy a wide range of music, from classical to hair metal, nu-metal, hip-hop, R&B, folk, and pretty much anything in between. I don’t really think I would classify one particular genre as being my favorite over another, but my choice on which to listen to would largely depend on what I’m doing, how I’m feeling at the moment, and whether or not I’ve heard the song and/or genre a bit too much, since over-listening to a particular song within a particular genre can be its own torture.

For instance, when I’m working on a particularly challenging project, I might reach for classical music—something like Bach’s “Goldberg Variations” played by Glenn Gould. The precision and complexity of the music create a sort of mental order amidst the chaos of my tasks. Gould’s fingers dancing over the keys are like an intricate ballet, a cerebral massage that eases my mind into focus.

On the other hand, when I’m driving late at night, nothing beats the raw energy of hair metal. There’s something liberating about blasting Def Leppard’s “Pour Some Sugar On Me” with the windows down, feeling the wind whip through my hair. It’s as if the unapologetic excess of the ’80s is propelling me forward, urging me to embrace a sense of carefree rebellion, if only for a few minutes.

Then there are those introspective moments, the ones where I need to retreat into my thoughts and sift through the complexities of life. Folk music becomes my companion here, particularly the melancholic strumming of Nick Drake. His “Pink Moon” album is like an old friend, whispering secrets and sorrows, helping me navigate the labyrinth of my own emotions.

Hip-hop and R&B have their own special places too. When I need to feel grounded, connected to the pulse of the present, I turn to artists like Kendrick Lamar. His album “To Pimp a Butterfly” is a tour de force of lyrical prowess and social commentary, a modern-day odyssey that challenges me to confront uncomfortable truths while getting lost in its rhythmic genius.

And then there’s nu-metal. A genre often maligned, but to me, it’s a guilty pleasure that I don’t feel guilty about at all. Bands like Linkin Park and Korn bring a visceral catharsis that’s unparalleled. The fusion of heavy guitar riffs with hip-hop beats and angst-ridden lyrics speaks to the dissonant, rebellious teenager that still resides somewhere within me. They were the bands and song of my youth, so that emo-sounding, yelling-singing that often comes across as whining brings back a sense of nostalgia from time to time.

The eclectic nature of my musical tastes reflects the varied tapestry of my life. There’s no single genre that could encapsulate all my experiences, moods, and aspirations. Music, in its many forms, provides a soundtrack to my existence, each genre a different shade on the palette of my daily life.

So, I suppose I probably answer exactly one specific genre of music as being my favorite of all. It’s the genre that matches the moment. It’s the one that resonates with the beat of my heart at any given time, the one that understands my unspoken thoughts and amplifies my unexpressed emotions. It’s ever-changing.

Live from the Comfort of My Couch

Daily writing prompt
What was the last live performance you saw?

I’m a bit ashamed to say that it’s been a good long minute since I’ve seen a live performance. Granted, now that I think about it, I did work the local farmer’s market last year, and there was a random Saturday in which a busker played some lovely flamenco styled melodies.

But in terms of concerts that I actually paid to go see, then it’s definitely been a long while since I’ve done any of that. Probably college. I know there were a few orchestras that I went to because my girlfriend at the time, who is now my wife, was the main stage manager for the small theatre our college had. So I hung out in control booth with her, mostly making out in between her various responsibilities. But I was physically there at the performance, so I’ll count it.

Then there were all the plays that I saw while in college, again due to the fact that my girlfriend was a stage manager for a majority of them. All of this was well over a decade ago now. So, yeah, like I said, unfortunately I haven’t been to too many live performances in quite some time.

Which isn’t to say that I wouldn’t have wanted to. There are plenty of performances that I’ve wanted to see live over past decade. I guess the reasons why I haven’t outweighed any motivation to actually go to a live performance. Either the tickets were too expensive, it was too late at night, or there were going to be a crowd of people there and I don’t like big crowds because they make feel incredibly uncomfortable.

The older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve realized I don’t like being in large open spaces where there are a lot of people, nor do I like doing much of anything that disrupts, or majorly disrupts, my daily routine. In a way, I guess one could say I’ve become a curmudgeon in my mid-thirties.

Actually, through this exercise of thinking about live performances that I’ve been to, I did remember that I did go to a small concert about six or seven years ago. I went to a Smile Empty Souls concert at a small bar in rural Georgia. The band sounds as dramatic as you would think, but they happened to be my brother-in-law’s favorite band from when he was a teenager, and we didn’t know how long they would be still touring. Or maybe it was because they didn’t tour all that much in the south, and so we figured we would go and see them on the off chance that the band didn’t come back any time soon.

After a quick Google search, I did confirm that Smile Empty Soul is still around and still touring. I’m not a huge fan of their music. It’s mostly depressing emo rock where the lyrics all read like they were written by a sad teenager wrote because their parents got a divorce when they were seven and they never processed it psychologically. But on occasion, I do find myself still listening to Smile Empty Soul for nostalgic reasons. Mostly due to the fact that they were my brother-in-law’s favorite band, and unfortunately he’s no longer with us. So, my wife and I will find ourselves on the anniversary of his death, loading up Spotify and playing a few of their songs in our own private mourning concert to remember him by.

If I had to choose what sort of live performance I’d like to go to next, I think right now in my life I’m at a point where the venue would need to be super small, kinda intimate, and the music would need to be jazz. And probably none of that electric new age sort of jazz, but that jazz that sounds raw and sentimental at the same time. Something like Coltrane or Davis or Monk. But unfortunately there aren’t really any jazz musicians that come through where I live, so I’ll probably just stick to listening to them in the privacy of my home and car by myself.